Although prone to being overprotective, “givers” are very affectionate parents who want to see their children well-adjusted.Their own extravert nature may cause them to push their child into social activities such as play dates, sports, or after-school programs from a young age.However, if they sense that their child is unhappy or if their partner drops hints that the child is being overwhelmed, the ENFJ will most likely back off.The personalities that seem most compatible with the ENFJ are the INFP (introverted, intuitive, feeling, perceiving) and INTP (introverted, intuitive, thinking, perceiving).“Givers” must be careful who they welcome into their circle of close friends, as the desire to avoid conflict can cause them to continuously overlook or forgive mistreatment by a “friend” or group of people.
This type of extravert is often well-loved wherever they go and is very dedicated to finding the right life-long companion.
“Givers” have a highly sensitive ability to pick up on what another individual is feeling and can usually get a person to open up with ease.
This need to be loved and accepted by others can go so deeply that an ENFJ may even drift into chameleon mode where he or she senses the moods and motives of others and imitates them.
On the other hand, ENFJs may become so desperate for approval from others that they may behave oddly or outside of the realm of social regularity.
This may be portrayed as saying or doing something in public or around strangers that most people would consider inappropriate.